Building Parent-Teacher Relationships
How we relate to our child's school teachers is important for child education partnership. It's not always easy, so let's find out some useful ways!
A good relationship with your child's class teacher can make a huge difference in their school experience. Wondering how to initiate this? Or perhaps how to build the existing relationship into a strong and respectful one with your child’s teacher? Here are some practical ways to foster that connection.
1. Start With a Positive Introduction
At the beginning of the school year, introduce yourself briefly (in person, via email, or a note). This may not be necessary if you're already known to that teacher.
Share helpful information about your child — their strengths, interests, or challenges — but keep it concise and respectful.
2. Communicate Respectfully and Clearly
Teachers juggle many students, so be mindful of their time.
When you reach out, keep messages short and focused.
Use a collaborative tone — frame concerns as “How can we work together to support…” rather than demands.
3. Show Appreciation
A simple thank-you note, email, or kind word goes a long way.
Acknowledge the effort teachers put in — it builds goodwill and shows you value their role.
4. Stay Involved Without Hovering
Volunteer when you can (class events, field trips, reading days).
Even small acts of involvement show you’re invested but avoid micromanaging your child’s day-to-day.
5. Keep Communication Open and Honest
Share changes at home that might affect your child (e.g., moving houses, family illness, family separation etc).
Ask for updates if you notice changes in your child’s mood or learning.
6. Be Consistent
Respond to teacher emails or requests promptly.
Follow through if you agree to support learning at home.
7. Approach Problems Calmly
If issues come up, address them privately and respectfully.
Listen to the teacher’s perspective before jumping to conclusions.
Remember: you both want the same thing — your child’s success and well-being.
8. Partner, Don’t Compete
Position yourself as part of a team with the teacher.
Use language like “We” instead of “You vs. Me” when discussing your child.
Hopefully, over time, these steps will create trust and collaboration, which benefits your child’s learning and emotional growth. If this information has been helpful to you, please share the link with someone else who might need it.